Constraints of “Bridalism”

Constraints of "Bridalism"

In the endocrine façade of society, let it not be conveyed or construed to at the depths of stereotypes in patriarchal views, womens' constraints are still robust and identified as they are blended to ideological necessity, and passed on as tradition. The multitude of the ants march and observe the presence of loneliness or their perception of an individual acting alone. Rather than trying to paint a story or imagine a practicality for the individual sitting alone, the individual is attacked from eyes as bright and illuminating as the great grey owl who almost stumbles past to observe a ring. In the modern public-sphere cannot a woman sit alone and enjoy her best company and friend, who also happen to be oneself. I define "bridalism" as the modern, historical constraints of views and perceptions which do not diminish the presence of specific-societal-norms that apply to married women, specifically in America today.

What constitutes a loss of independence for married women, which beseeches even the brightest capacity to think without the indulgence of masculinity? Are not my own ideas, mine to breathe and to whisper to others? Are not my philosophies, not mine to bear? Are not my passions, mine to dream, and are not my bridges not mine to leap? Women are beings who are not threatening and not incapable of thought. Women are however, equal in mind to men. So how can society negate that married women need their husbands to define their minds and condemn them to a travesty of dependence.

Dependence to pursue modern poverty of mind and spirit to feel as second in line, as a second class, in some way the brightest protestor, the "Cher Icon," the Shirley McClaine, Opra Winfrey and even Dolly or Loretta Lynn sacrificed something. A characteristic of normality for fortune and fame, Opra with her independence from children and the diagnosis of non-wedding bliss and no component of dominated power of the contractual form; Loretta is the fighter of an abusive husband and forbidden young marriage to an older man, who committed his existence to building her persona than his idea of her, rather than her true soul, while utilizing her to populate his legacy in the special Kentucky tradition; Cher who married twice or chastised her love to preserve herself , rather than to conform to the providence of male dominance and egocentrism to predominate his passion, rather than her own.

The cue is to have Bridalism introduce purity amongst gender to equalize the playing field, between pro and con, and offense and defense. Elizabeth, in her own time would never marry and give-up her purpose. Today, I can and will do both. I'd rather defeat bridalism, than have a ring or certificate defeat GOD. However, because I am a member of faith, I see beyond that of Modernity and Christendom. I am we, merged interdependence, and rather a complex dynamics of a new construed creation. The interdependence between the two who are equality and balance, a new inauguration of feminine and masculine traits, whether by the female or the male, the details are the frosting, which withers away, while the main construction is mostly the dominance of the team.

Then the team is reported as reputable, rather than disorder. The two are a partnership of "Bridalintegracy. " Bridalintegracy is defined as an integral component and necessity to combine preferred traits to establish a new identity to provide for love and success on the matrimonial agility of existence on earth.

Matrimony is the defined, greatest gift of partnership and relationships given by divine creation. Matrimony is the beginning and the end of adulthood. It is sometimes chosen, sometimes not. However, it is the complexity of social attention and the essence of life. Matrimony is furthermore, a blessed sacrament not to conceal servitude and widening dependence. Matrimony is neither, but to console the body-cast in its peak of enlightenment and sweetest serendipity, the illuminating peculiarity of not knowing, but the equality of man and female in the like of the Bridalintegracy, "to have and to hold, to cherish, as long as thee shall live," in body, mind and spirit.